Submissives and dominants

[FeatsofClay]

In a recent conversation in my gallery I mentioned that there were "probably 5 or 10 times as many female submissives and males. Males tend towards more dominant sexual roles and vice versa." and got called out HARD for it.

So I come to you, my freaky and small sampling group for info.

The poll is anonymous.

[Varaj]

We have several folks that are heavy in the lifestyle here. Perhaps they will weigh in.

[Brynja]

I tend toward submissive, but that said...I can switch under the right circumstances.I cannot however domiante long term.


People confuse the submission in the sexual realm as the extension of gender roles and I just dont see it. In my daily life, I call the shots and demand nothing but egalitarian-ness in my relationships.

[Janos]

Pure dominant here. I can't stand to sub, and neither enjoy it or do it very often. Love being a Dom though.

[FeatsofClay]

People confuse the submission in the sexual realm as the extension of gender roles and I just dont see it.


I am thinking this is what I was misunderstood as implying. I have known extremes of both genders who were opposite extremes sexually. And middle roaders and all other variations. I have seen absolutely no connection between 'personal' traits and sexual.

[Cat of Ulthar]

People confuse the submission in the sexual realm as the extension of gender roles and I just dont see it. In my daily life, I call the shots and demand nothing but egalitarian-ness in my relationships.

Exactly. I am violently egalitarian in daily life, but like to be submissive in "bed".