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Name Lips
01-19-2010, 12:30 PM
OK, I almost posted this in the other thread because it's obviously going to trigger a discussion along the same lines. Perhaps they're really part of the same thing.

But it's another "study about human sexuality" that I find utterly fascinating. And I figured it was enough of "it's own thing" to put it in a new thread.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34688685/ns/health-sexual_health/


Men know it when aroused, women may not
Sexual connection between mind and body less consistent for women

When it comes to sexual arousal, a woman's mind and body are less in sync than a man's, a review of research finds.

Men who reported feeling turned on tended to also sport an erection , while a matchup between the mind and body wasn't so consistent for women, according to the review published online Jan. 4 in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior.

"We wanted to discover how closely people's subjective experience of sexual arousal mirrors their physiological genital response — and whether this differs between men and women," said researcher Meredith Chivers, a psychology professor at Queen's University in Canada.

Chivers and colleagues reviewed more than 130 studies published between 1969 and 2007 involving participants' arousal responses. In total, the review included more than 2,500 women and 1,900 men.

Men's subjective ratings of arousal were in agreement with their body's level of sexual arousal about 66 percent of the time, while women's were in line only about 26 percent of the time.

"The general pattern that I have seen in my laboratory is that women experience a genital response but do not report feeling sexually aroused," Chivers told LiveScience.

Overall, the findings suggest women and men have different experiences of sexual arousal.

"For men, their experience is strongly related to physiological arousal whereas for women it is less so," Chivers said.

Supporting the conclusions, a study reported in 2003 showed men's arousal clearly tracks sexual orientation, with gay men getting turned on by images of men, and straight guys by images of women. In contrast, that 2003 study showed both heterosexual and lesbian women were sexually aroused by male and female erotica, regardless of their sexual orientation.

Figuring out how measures of arousal (mental vs. physiological) differ between men and women will help scientists study human sexuality and understand the nature of these differences, Chivers said.

So, basically, when a man says he feels turned on, he has an erection. When he says he doesn't feel turned on, he doesn't.

But when a woman says she isn't turned on, she may or may not be exhibiting physical signs of arousal, and if she is, she is unaware of the fact. It's almost like her body is preparing for possible sex without informing her brain.

I also find the bit thrown in at the end interesting. Men are turned on only by images that correspond with their sexual orientation, whereas women are turned on by male and female erotic images regardless of their stated sexual orientation.

AZRogue
01-19-2010, 12:42 PM
Hence the old line, "she might say NO, but her body is saying YES."

Once again, men are proven correct. Now all I need is to find a study that says women are truly happy, even if they don't realize it, only when cooking steaks, naked except for an apron that says "Yes Dear", while their chubby boyfriends watch football in the living room. Slacker scientists. ;)

SpikeyFreak
01-19-2010, 12:55 PM
Lulz, it also proves that all women are bisexual.

--WOOT! Spikey

Dawnstar
01-20-2010, 11:44 AM
I think it is more along the lines that a woman can be physically aroused but still not be into having sex. and that is the truth. I know guys might hate this but them the breaks. :)

SpikeyFreak
01-20-2010, 11:45 AM
I think it is more along the lines that a woman can be physically aroused but still not be into having sex. and that is the truth. I know guys might hate this but them the breaks. :)
And it must suck to want to have sex but not be aroused.

--NeverHadTHATProblemNoReallyIHaven't Spikey

The Winslow
01-20-2010, 12:02 PM
So, basically, when a man says he feels turned on, he has an erection. When he says he doesn't feel turned on, he doesn't.

But when a woman says she isn't turned on, she may or may not be exhibiting physical signs of arousal, and if she is, she is unaware of the fact. It's almost like her body is preparing for possible sex without informing her brain.

I'm not sure I read this in the same way.

Men who reported feeling turned on tended to also sport an erection
Okay. Now I didn't see this anywhere in the article:
Men who reported sporting an erection tended to also feel turned on

So that's just half of the matter addressed.

SpikeyFreak
01-20-2010, 12:05 PM
I'm not sure I read this in the same way.


Okay. Now I didn't see this anywhere in the article:


So that's just half of the matter addressed.
And I work with a guy who is routinely has erections in a non-aroused state. He actually thought I was strange because I don't get an erection if I have to pee really bad.

--Strange Friend-ed Spikey

Andreas
01-20-2010, 12:32 PM
And I work with a guy who is routinely has erections in a non-aroused state. He actually thought I was strange because I don't get an erection if I have to pee really bad.

--Strange Friend-ed Spikey

So, i am not the only one?
Good to know...

Hatter
01-20-2010, 12:49 PM
So, i am not the only one?
Good to know...

Hasn't happened to me since I was a teenager.

Name Lips
01-20-2010, 12:52 PM
So, i am not the only one?
Good to know...

We never really get out of the "am I normal?" stage, do we?

bunny
01-20-2010, 01:16 PM
I think it might have to do with the fact that arousal is more of a mental thing than a physical thing for women. More women fantasize during sex than men and usually require that mental stimulation in order to climax. Also, I often find that I am mentally aroused and interested in having sex when none of the physical effects are present (blood flow, lubrication, salivation, etc). When I was a teenager I would become aware of the physical effects after having a conversation with a boy, but the thought of sex with him or in general had never crossed my mind. I mostly found the physical effects bothersome rather than a sign that I was aroused. Mental arousal is usually triggered by thoughts, fantasies or visual stimuli. It's all very strange.

Cat of Ulthar
01-20-2010, 01:47 PM
I've had the physical arousal without the mental arousal, which is strange. You'll be innocently working and all of a sudden you're like "Whoa, body, what on earth do you think you're doing, and what do you think I am doing? I am just listing irregular colours, and when I'm done with that, I'll hang the laundry. Absolutely nothing to get worked up about."
Also what is weird is if you are watching some porn which you don't find arousing at all, sometimes your body will still respond. Odd.
I've had the other way around as well, where I felt all aroused but my body hadn't quite caught on.
Usually it's quite synchronous though, fortunately.