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FeatsofClay
05-14-2008, 08:25 PM
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Couple's Lotto dispute going to court
When a South Florida man hit the lottery and tried to hide it from his wife, she sued for a cut of the cash. The case goes to court on Thursday.

Some husbands shower their wives with gifts when they win the Lotto. Arnim Ramdass kept the good news to himself. And when Donna Campbell found out on her own, her husband went AWOL, leaving the former beauty queen emotionally drained and financially desperate.

So she sued.

Campbell v. Ramdass, the lawsuit, comes to a Miami-Dade courtroom this week. It's a tale of luck and betrayal, a case study in how a financial windfall can make a seemingly stable marriage go sour in a hurry. At stake: $600,000 in winnings, Ramdass' cut of a $19 million jackpot he split with 16 other mechanics at Miami International Airport.

The spousal spat -- yep, they're still married -- has taken some bizarre turns since it was first reported in The Miami Herald in November.

Ramdass, who eluded process servers for months, eventually returned to his job and resurfaced at his Miramar home. He and Campbell, who said their vows in 2005, run into each other at the house but do not speak or e-mail or otherwise interact. It's a house divided.

''Like ships passing in the night,'' said Campbell's attorney, Bruce Baldwin of Miami's Mase & Lara.

Campbell wants at least half of the loot, figuring she's entitled because the winning ticket was bought with marital assets. In his legal response, Ramdass says she doesn't deserve a penny.

Repeated attempts to contact Ramdass, 52, were unsuccessful. His attorney, Robert Puzio, said in an e-mail there would be no comment.

Campbell, 48, a former model and runner-up at the 1979 Miss Trinidad and Tobago beauty pageant, said her husband's refusal to share his good fortune has burdened her. He always handled the money. She did not work outside the house.

He's apparently been paying the mortgage and bills, but other than that she is broke and despondent.

''I have to rely on my friends to come and take me to lunch, bring me dinner,'' Campbell said from the clean, white living room of her well-appointed home in the Silver Lakes development. ``I'm extremely stressed about everything. I don't know what I'll do if this goes on much longer.''

The saga started when Ramdass hit a $19 million jackpot in June along with 16 co-workers at Miami International Airport. The lucky numbers -- picked by the computer, as was the group's custom -- were 6, 31, 34, 44, 45 and 49.

Instead of taking $19 million over time, the group opted for $10.2 million in a lump sum, which translated to exactly $600,000 per player before taxes.

Campbell said Ramdass didn't tell her a thing. But he started acting suspiciously, she said, disconnecting the phone line and forbidding her from watching TV.

Alarm bells went off when she found a postcard congratulating her husband on buying some out-of-state property.

She Googled her husband's name. There it was: a Florida Lottery press release about the lucky airline mechanics.

''I sat him down and he denied it,'' Campbell said.

Ramdass then told his wife he bought the ticket for his daughter Janelle, from a previous marriage, who lives in Orlando. But Campbell didn't believe that story.

'I said, `Look me in the eyes. Do you think I'm a gold digger?' ''

That was the last they spoke before his disappearing act, she said. Soon, Campbell got a lawyer and filed suit, alleging her husband fraudulently conspired to keep the money from her.

Campbell still doesn't know where her husband is spending his nights, but he drops by during the day, generally to tinker around the house and yard.

It's not clear whether he will drop by Thursday's hearing, at which Judge Jennifer Bailey could throw out Campbell's lawsuit or give it a green light to move forward to a jury trial.

Campbell said she will divorce Ramdass once the lottery dispute is finished. She doesn't have the energy or money right now, she said, but knows their relationship is beyond salvage.

''It's over between us,'' she said. ``I just want him to tell the truth.''


People have the oddest relationships...

Space Cadet B^3
05-15-2008, 01:16 PM
pudding... it would simply take pudding.

Oh wait, I'm single, thank the gods! ;)

Trainz
05-15-2008, 01:51 PM
If my SO won the lottery and then told me to fuck off, I'd be extremely pissed off. But I would take it as a life lesson and move on.

Space Cadet B^3
05-15-2008, 01:57 PM
One of my co-workers has said (and gotten a lot of flak for it) if he struck it rich he'd give his fiance a $2 million payoff and go on a world-wide sex vacation.

Space Cadet B^3
05-15-2008, 02:04 PM
It's a union doomed to fail. We half-heartedly joke that she's his gimp, kept in a cage while he's out of the house. He met her online, flew from someplace like Cleveland to meet her in Florida, she dropped out of college and somehow they ended up in Kansas, where he's working a crap job and she's supposedly agoraphobic and doesn't leave their apartment.

They play Everquest 2 together, but she doesn't tolerate nudity in her media or his, so he's grousing about being unable to play the new Conan MMORPG.

Doomed to fail, sadly and probably with fire.

doc
05-15-2008, 05:35 PM
I'ld never bump the Ex off, but if I had had a big enough insurence policy I'm sure I wouldn't have been here.

Ergeheilalt
05-15-2008, 07:13 PM
She'd have to pork a Cylon, claim she did it for me, and then betray the remnants of humanity.

Janos
05-15-2008, 08:00 PM
She'd have to pork a Cylon, claim she did it for me, and then betray the remnants of humanity.

ouch. now that's nerd schadenfreude.

:)

Pigs in Space
05-15-2008, 09:43 PM
SA wouldn't do it to me, and I wouldn't do it to her.

I think we'd both retire though and tour the world.

Hell, if I didn't have to work, cos I had enough cash, I'd probably be like, all good and stuff and do charity work.

Name Lips
05-16-2008, 09:59 AM
See, now I actually married somebody I love and with whom I think it would be really fun to spend lots of money.

Atropine Mama
05-16-2008, 01:38 PM
See, now I actually married somebody I love and with whom I think it would be really fun to spend lots of money.

Word. There's not an Eve accessory or gaming book Deathe would be missing if we were filthy rich. I'd be buying him all the toys he'd ever wanted! :cool:

Dawnstar
05-16-2008, 01:52 PM
If either Enk or I won the lottery we would have the house we want, the cars we want and all the fun stuff that we could handle. :)

People who do things like this surprise me. I mean if money is going to change things that much in your marriage then there are some issues.

Xavier Lang
05-16-2008, 06:33 PM
People have the oddest relationships...
So true...

How many people do you know without at least one relationship that makes you go "What the hell were you thinking?" Now imagine someone in that relationship winning the lottery before it ended.

I'd love to have stupid amounts of money so share with my wife, my friends, my family, etc...

Tetsubo
05-17-2008, 07:50 AM
See, now I actually married somebody I love and with whom I think it would be really fun to spend lots of money.

Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner!

Every fantasy "found cash" scenario I run through my head has my wife front and center. To be debt free and own our own home would make me *very* happy. After that we help out the family and friends and donate some of it. Then I get to start training: woodworking, machining, welding, gunsmith...

Trainz
05-17-2008, 09:57 AM
Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner!

Every fantasy "found cash" scenario I run through my head has my wife front and center. To be debt free and own our own home would make me *very* happy. After that we help out the family and friends and donate some of it. Then I get to start training: woodworking, machining, welding, gunsmith...

Holy shit it's true; you're a medieval weapon nut.

I would love to see what you would come up with.

These are your drawings that I coloured when I was beginning doing image coloring. They were a great training process for me.

Tetsubo
05-17-2008, 02:00 PM
Holy shit it's true; you're a medieval weapon nut.

I would love to see what you would come up with.

These are your drawings that I coloured when I was beginning doing image coloring. They were a great training process for me.

Have I ever hidden this fact? :)

Nice work.

I would love to have a shop of my own. Where I could produce physically what I have only sketched.

Megamieuwsel
05-18-2008, 06:57 AM
In case of a "Win the ridiculous pile o' cash"-scenario, I'd clean up my mortgage on the current house and start a medieval weapon/armour-smithy in some remote area in france with the wife.
(Skills are already in place and of more than sufficient level, so that saves time....)
Although Tets has better drawing-skills.....

My marriage is good without the money, so it'll be good with it.

The marriage in that article was a mistake of epic proportions to start with, so might as well blow it to kingdom come.

Btw.- Funny that Trainz actually coloured those drawings; In the time I had exactly the same idea, but never got around to it and finally forgot about it...

Kilmore
05-18-2008, 07:55 PM
Fucker's gonna end up broker than hell. That lottery money is gonna fuck him. Out of state properties? Good luck with that, numbnut.

The Wanderer
05-18-2008, 08:04 PM
Holy shit it's true; you're a medieval weapon nut.

I would love to see what you would come up with.

These are your drawings that I coloured when I was beginning doing image coloring. They were a great training process for me.

i would love to have that axe and sword on my wall that sword is like a cross of conan and lotr it is sweet